Kissing is both an incredibly personal and extremely enjoyable form of physical intimacy. For many of us however, it can also be somewhat of a stress inducer.
Whether you're a newbie to the dating scene and perhaps unsure of how well your kiss will be received, or simply someone moving into a new relationship, it's very important to make sure that you're kissing as best as you can.
Kissing really comes down to three basic characteristics. These characteristics are confidence, connection and technique. Any other aspect involved is either built out of one or more of these three characteristics, or simply related to them. There are three tips involving the fundamental characteristics of kissing or making out, which are designed to make sure that you can kiss with skill, confidence and ability. Follow these three tips, and you'll never have to worry about whether or not your kiss will be well received and enjoyed.
1 - Enter your kiss with confidence
We've all seen it happen on TV shows -- a potentially great kiss falls short because someone isn't sure if it will be well received. When you're moving in for the kiss, you need to be absolutely 100% confident of it's success, and possess a mind clear of any worry that it might fail. By entering with full confidence you lower the rate of potential failure, as human nature is such that we are much more likely to reciprocate an act of intimacy when our partner enters it with absolute confidence. Enter your kissing with confidence and you'll avoid creating awkward situations.
2 - Use the 'triangle test' to check the waters
The triangle test is a unique kissing strategy that few people know of. When you're thinking of going in for a kiss, but are not sure if it will be successful, the triangle test can help you overcome any fear of making your move. Simply look into your partner's eyes, then down at their lips, then back at their eyes again. If they're looking down at your lips, it's code clear for kissing. When you perform this motion slowly and steadily, it's completely natural and provides a great test for making sure that your kiss will be well received. Test the waters before you hop in and you'll be able to avoid embarrassing and awkward situations.
3 - Don't be afraid to experiment
The only thing worse than a bad kisser is a bad kisser who's too set in their ways to change. Don't think that the only way to kiss passionately and properly is to do the same thing over and over. By experimenting, you open yourself up to the possibility of finding some kissing techniques that are truly magnificent, and make the possibility of a great kiss even higher. Rewards come to those who experiment and test things, not to those who become complacent with their average abilities. In order to become a truly excellent kisser, you need to allow yourself to experiment, improve and improvise, in order to become better and better. Kissing isn't static and is constantly evolving and improving. Without experimentation you could be left behind.
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